Friday, September 11, 2009

20 Ramadan 1430h - Shaadi?? in church??

Suhoor: Sweet corn on cob, dates, infusions tea, water
Iftaar: Milk and dates
Dinner: Eggs, cheese and lettuces wrap and leek and chicken stir fry.

I was speaking to Rafia today... and it dawned on me that in order to show we are tolerant we need to have empathy with others. In this context us being Muslims and others being other non-Muslims.

So i was wondering if i can make mum and dad happy by having a church wedding after having the proper nikah in a masjid. Perhaps mum and dad just wanted to feel the wedding celebration of their only daughter and mum wants to see all her relatives and friends gathered together at church and then a reception at home and then followed by a nice wedding dinner at some posh restaurant, or if ever possible, inshallah at some posh hotel. Maybe if I can get my in-laws to be to agree, and my fiance to feel the same like I do about making his in-laws happy ..... and me to speak to the priest so that he can conduct a service without ever mentioning anything to do with the trinity then perhaps..... it may happen..... far fetch, it sounds...

no, it can happen... if the priest agrees to cooperate...yes, it can happen if the priest practices his faith justly... catholics are respectful of other religions, therefore I do not see why he can do it for the sake of the happiness of a few other catholics. Or...if there are double standards. Fishy...

ahmmm...so today, today.... today.....is the start of the lailatulqadr...

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